Though the two have been together for four years, Ricky Martin has only recently opened up about his boyfriend, Puerto Rican financial analyst / stockbroker Carols Gonzalez Abella, with whom he is raising twin boys Matteo and Valentino. When Martin and Abella, the nephew of former Puerto Rican governor Pedro Rossello Gonzalez, connected . Ricky Martin and his long-term boyfriend Carlos Gonzalez Abella have ended their relationship. Read on for the details. Ricky Martin is now living the single life. The year-old singer has called it quits with his longtime boyfriend, stock broker Carlos Gonzalez Abella. "Ricky and Carlos have mutually agreed to end their relationship but continue to be united by friendship and their shared experiences," a.